Rishte kuch humne banaye aur kuch janam lete hi,iss duniya me paida hote hi ban gaye...suna hai kuch rishte ishwar ke marzi se bante hai...jinn rishto ko hume dilse nibhana hota hai...jaise ki Mata-Pita,Bhai-bahen,Pati-patni,Beta-Beti Aur blood relation jise khoon ke rishte kahete hai....kahene ke liye to har rishta apne aap me unique hota hai lekin usse nibhane ke kiye log dil aur dimag dono kahi isttmal karte hai...kai rishto me to bass swarth hi chupa hota hai...aur kai rishte bebuniyad nibhaye jate hai,,,magr iss duniya me hazaro rishto ke bich ek rishta hota hai jisme na koi swarth,na koi khoon ka rishta,na bebooniyadi rishto ki pahechan,,,,,Uss rishte ko bass ek sacche aur imandar dil ki pahechan hoti hai...Jise hum dil ka rishta kahete hai...jo bass dilse nibhaye jaate hai...aise dil ke rishte me sirf pyar,vishwas,aur tyag yahi sab hota hai...yahi iss rishte ki jad hoti hai...innhi sabse dil ka banaya hua rishta mazboot hota hai...yahi iss rishte ki dharohar hai...aur yahi iss rishte ka maan aur sanmaan bhi hai...
Kya kisike zindagi me aisa dilka rishta hota hai??? kya koi apne rishte ke dayre ko inn pyar,bharosa aur parityag jaise mazboot diwarose sanjota hai...Shayad aisa hota hai...har kisiko sacche aur imandar rishte milte hai...kya har koi aise hi rishte ki talash me raheta hai...bass lagta yahi hai,ki aise rishte me jise sirf dil ki baate acchi lagti ho,jise dilse behatar koi na samzta ho uss anmol rishte ko sirf hum apni taraf se har mumkeen pyar dena hi jante ho...aise rishteme bina kisi ummid ke hazaro khushiya dastak de jaati hai...magar aise rishteme sirf dena hi padta hai....Give and Take jaisi to koi baat door door tak nazar hi nahi aati hai,,,yaha bass "Give and Give up"..yahi nazar aata hai...
Ek khubsoorat ehsaas hota hai ye dil ka rishta jise insaan khud apne dilse banata hai...phir wo usse ek pyarasa naam deta hai jise "Dost" kahete hai.... Dosti pyar ka naam hai aisa aksar sunte hai...lekin kya dosti pyar se bhi badhkar hai,shayad "Ha".....Ya shayad "Na"...Magar insaan agar mushkilome ghira hua hai aur aise wqut me koi uska haath tham le to wo usse ek saccha Dost hi kahe sakta hai phir chahe wo uske mata-Pita ho ya uska Jeewan saathi...Kahete hai jab uparwala kisi samanya insaan ki madat bhi karta hai to uska rishtedar ya uska pyar banakr nahi balki uska dost banakar uski madat karta hai...Dost ki dosti kisi Khuda ki Kudai se kam nahi...
Har rishte ki ek alag pahechan hoti hai...sab rishto ko samzna wakai zaroori bhi hota hai...har rishte ko nibhana ek farz bhi ban jata hai...magar kuch rishto ko samazte samzate hum usse kaise nibhana hai yahi nahi samaz paate..kuch rishte humare liye bahot ajeez hote hai magar usse hum samaz hi nahi paate...hum chahte to hai hum uss rishte ke saath khush rahe magar wo hamareliye khas hokar bhi hum uss rishte me khush bhi nahi rahe paate aur jiske saath khas rishta hota hai use bhi khush nahi rakh paate...shayad kahi kuch kam pad jaata hoga...Kuch rishte aise bhi hote hai jise hum chahte to bahot hai magar use nibha nahi paate...kabhi kabhi to chah kar bhi rishto ko sambhalna mushkil sa lagne lagta hai...
Rishto me Maan-Sanmaan,Rishte ki iizzat karna,aur uss rishte par bharosa,uss rishte se pyar karna aur uss rishte ko nibhane keliye humesha tayiyar rahena aur tyag,balidan karna...shayad innhi sab baatose ek khubsoorat bandhan,ek atoot rishta ban jata hai...jaise khuda se rishta hota hai..bass jaise Mata-Pita se rishta hota hai...Kuch aisa hi rishta jisme sirf apnapan hota hai...jise nibhakar khushi milti ho,jiskeliye kuch bhi karne ko dil karta ho,jiski khushi keliye sabkuch accha lagta ho...koi kisikeliye ye sab tabhi karta hoga jab ek insaan ko ye yakin ho ki uski zindagi me ek sacchha rishta hai jo uske liye sabkuch bina swarth ke karta ho...jo uska har mushkil ghadi me uska haath thame uske saath ho...jo humesh use sahi raah dikhaye...kisika bhi dil apne aap hi aise dilse banaye huye rishte keliye sabkuch kar guzarta hoga...bass chaht hoti hai to ek saf suthre humrahi ki jo akhri dum tak saath de ek sacche Jeewan Saathi ke roop me..ek pyar karnewale Mata-Pita ke roop me..Ek acche Dost ke roop me....
Bass aisa hi ho har rishta Pyar ke roop me...
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